Making Lemonade out of Lemons

This week, it seems our blog is a little harder to write. Where do we even begin? How can we write about on- trend wedding ideas or finding the perfect bridesmaids dresses with what is going on right now?! Honestly we just can’t - we know we have to tackle the gloomy topic of your wedding and the COVID-19 crisis. 

Okay – take a deep breath. We are seriously all in this together! 

First off, we just want to send extra love to every couple facing this problem right now. In a world full of uncertainty, we know that your wedding day was truly the light at the end of the tunnel. While we can’t magically change what’s happening these days, what we can tell you is continue to look at that light! Your perfect day is still going to happen, we promise. Every wedding vendor and person in the industry is rooting for you and doing everything in their power to help out their incredible couples! 

One of the best pieces of advice we can give right now, is to call your coordinator or planner. There are going to be your number one advocate and (as always) have your best interest as their top priority! They are here to help you, no questions asked. The other day we came across a really incredible quote that we just have to share - 

They [your planner] are your best tool for gathering valuable information from your venue and team, advising on strategy, and guiding with expertise. You’ve paid them to act on your behalf. This may be the first pandemic we’ve gone through, but not the first postponement or cancellation or challenge in general. - Shealyn Angus

So call us! Ask questions, tell us your worries and take comfort and knowing that we are listening and we are all hands on deck for you! 

What we want to express to all upcoming weddings, is don’t jump the gun on cancellations or changes too fast. While it is important to keep current events and the wellbeing of you, your guests and vendors in mind, it is also okay to ride this out. If your wedding is more than 60 days out, wait a bit longer on making such a big decision. Right now there just isn’t enough information for what 60+ days away will hold. So be patient and don’t make a rush judgement! 

Now, if your wedding is 60 days away or less out, it’s time to make to make your final decision on postponing / changes to your big day. This will give your entire wedding team enough time to come up with creative plan and enough time to inform your guests. Try not to worry and know that your venues and vendors will adapt with you. Under these crazy circumstances they are going to do what is best for you and your partner! We know this is a hard choice but we also know that when your new date does come, it will be magical.

If you do have to postpone or make changes remember to be flexible. Try your hardest to keep an open mind! If your original date landed on a Saturday or Friday, be open to the idea of a Sunday or even a weekday wedding. You’ll have a better chance at securing all your top vendors. While we will do absolutely everything in our power to make your new day perfect, be flexible and open to new ideas. Sometimes plan B turns out even better!  

Finally, try and be positive. Take it day by day. Feel free to grieve and be upset because what you’re feeling is valid and totally understandable! Make the best out of the given situation. If you have to postpone your wedding day, find a small and meaningful way to celebrate it the original date with your partner. Have a slow dance in your kitchen, video-chat with your wedding party, order some fancy take out, laugh, cry and most importantly be with each other! Be grateful for what’s to come, for your health and for all the people supporting you right now. 

We are sending all the love and positive vibes to our couples, our community and beyond. If there is anything the Little Bird team can do to help, we are here.

Written by Madeline Silveira